yes, having a plant does gives people permission. but that is just one layer of what having a plant does. Rubbing me erotically under my robes arousing, practically unseen, generates energy unlimited by taboos. People feel this energy and because they can't quite see what you are doing under my robes, they amplify the energy unlimited by not knowing for sure. It is important that your rubbing me erotically is as explicit /direct /firm as possible. It is a tanpanic performance.
PANTAN combines various kinds of orgasm [explosions of energy] with ontonse [a regular implosion of energy] within an intensely small/intimate nonlinear play. These explosions and implosions feed off one other, creating a sustainable state of enjoyable pleasure. The sustainable state of pantan can become the context of your whole life. Pantan is the state of turn-on, aroused enjoyment of life and of being together. Within pantan creativity, inspiration, a sense of awe and newness, etc. always are at work.
Tanpanic performances are altered states of physical trance, without the limits of morals, for different magical nonlinear change, in a totally different nonindividualistic context than the normal cultural context. We will call this context "tanpan". Within tanpan, all of the aspects of this physical play are drained of both their normal and hidden meanings and qualities, so that they can be used by the magic through the shaman to effect both local and nonlocal changes. These physical trance rituals of tanpan are magical rather than personal. Tanpanic trances arouse the state of pantan to the surface of being.
Frank Moore